Couples of all types, beliefs, and stages are welcome, in person in Bend or by secure video anywhere in Oregon. In Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT), I don't referee. I help each of you feel seen, slow down the cycle that keeps hurting you both, and learn to repair after conflict.
A good fit if you
- keep having the same fight
- feel distant or alone together
- are healing from betrayal or infidelity
- are going through a major transition
- want to understand each other, not win
What to expect
We begin with a session together, then meet with each of you individually, then continue weekly. We don't try to fix every argument. We change how you handle disagreements and come back together afterward.
Want to go deeper faster? See my couples intensives in Bend. Fee: $200 per session; insurance may apply. Questions about paperwork? See the FAQ.